6 weeks

You've been gone for almost six weeks now. I didn't know you had made me the executor of your estate---although it didn't surprise me---but I didn't expect for you to have made me the beneficiary of your estate as well. Also, the will you had made had been written before our mediation, the mediation you had so wanted, the mediation you had said was what we should have done from the beginning, the mediation where you gave away your entitlement to my retirement plan. The will didn't mesh with what was in the final divorce settlement. In it you gave the lion's share of 'your' entitlement to my pension plan to cancer foundations. How sad for your daughter and how fortunate that it didn't come to fruition. How sad that she had to read that you would give what you thought was over a million dollars to cancer institutes and something like twenty thousand to her. Fortunately your delusional thinking was, once again, inaccurate. You can't measure and collect your portion of a pension plan by what it would hypothetically pay off over any number of years. It can only be calculated against the existing dollar amount in that plan on the date of separation. What a jerk! Was a selfish, uninformed jerk!